To keep the softness safe

“Babies compel us to sound ‘So cute’.”

The innocent face of babies not only create childish smile on elder’s face but also excite elders to remember those lovely childhood memories. The smile of babies make elder ones lost in them.

Whenever one plays with a baby, he tries to keep the baby safe and smiling. One always tries and work to keep babies safe from any kind of problem or danger.
Whenever there comes an awkward condition, elders first think of babies and then comes the number for other things.

Babies are also treated as the model of the God on the earth.
Beside everything, babies have sweet smiles and soft skin which attracts every person towards that sweetness.

There is a direct connection between skin and the health of a body.
Skin defines the overall health condition of a baby. So, elders pay their first attention on maintenance of soft skin of babies.

I have seen some traditional practices in my village that people usually use to keep their baby’s skin soft and healthy.

Some of those practices often used in traditional methods to keep baby’s skin soft are:-

1. Keeping away from unnecessary heat

Elders do not allow to take out babies outside the roof. Babies are kept in amazing care and hence are avoided from the excess heat. Babies are also avoided from the direct sunlight.

2.  Paying attention on cleanliness

Cleanliness is the best way of protection from unwanted diseases. You can keep your baby’s skin softer by paying attention on every drop of dirt on the body and cleaning immediately.
Babies are cleaned with lukewarm water and body soap on daily basis.

3. Love and care

You shouldn’t decrease the level of love and care towards a baby. It is the love and care that makes baby smiling and cute look.
So, keep them loving and caring.

4. Using branded equipments

You shouldn’t use those equipments for babies that are not trustworthy. It may cause harmful effects on baby’s skin as well as health.
It’s necessary to use branded items to avoid side-effects.

5. Regularity

Babies should be cared regularly. It’s not an act of one or two days but a regular care is needed to keep your baby’s skin softer forever.
Make a list of essential works for the baby and do it on a routine basis.
It would help your baby in being healthy.

In my village, Elder women often use the gentle massage therapy of mustard oil for small babies to keep their skin pulpy and flexible.
Whenever you have to come out of the roof with the baby, you should cover the baby with clean towel or clothes.

These are some practices that I have seen being used and are necessary for keeping baby’s skin soft and health at its best.

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In search of an ideal Valentine

“The ideal Valentine is who gives you a number of reasons to smile.”

In this season of Valentine, we have just deeply sinked ourselves in the sea of love. The love that is pure, honest and trustworthy, the love that cares our heart, our emotions, our beliefs.

Valentine symbolizes love. In the new age of technology revolution, It’s very common to hear the name of a digital device as first love.

These devices never leave us alone, care our concerns, do help in difficulties and a lot more, without hoping for benefit in return. So, why cannot a device be my ideal Valentine?

Asus, a leading manufacturing company for phones, tablets, laptops, desktops and other accessories, has always made us feel mesmerized with their innovative and attractive products. Their zenfone series has gained great popularity as well as strong beliefs all over the world.

This Valentine season, I would choose an Asus Zenfone as my ideal Valentine and these are my reasons:-

1. Attractive look

Love at first sight is assumed as the strongest one. The beauty of the face derives its inner story.
One watches the face with eyes and the heart decides the rest. If it is loved, no other thing is able to derail that love.
It could be called craziness but the love should have some amount of madness embedded in it too.

Asus Zenfone’s look is there to make you crazy at first sight. You are not going to even think of another after watching this.

Asus zenfone is present in 4″,5″ and 6″ size. The screen has hd resolution. It’s highly protected as well as attractive to the eyes.

2. The fare Care

Your ideal love not only ask of your concerns, problems, pains but try its best to solve it, delete every spot of pain too.

Asus zenfone is the same. It is always ready to care you with its beautiful features.
Zenfone has the feature of high speed 3G and wi-fi, that is responsible for connecting its user with the world of all answers, the Internet.

3. Connecting with the world

It’s social media that makes us a global citizen by giving us the feature to interact with anyone in the world.
It has been made easy to be global with the advanced Asus Zenfone.

The dual SIM feature is an another  beautiful feature that has simplified our need of talking(exchange of voices) on it.
It also doesn’t asks where are you talking, why are you talking type irritating questions.

4. It’s durable

Asus zenfone has the long battery backup that is quite enough for my work.
It has strong metallic body that makes it durable, long-lasting.
There is no need to worry in long journey or at the places having no facility of charging.
It just says- keep using me.

5. Best of the rest

A list of its features is not the whole to tell its realistic benefits. It could be explored in all directions after using it.
But, going through the list, my eyes and heart combined together and said to me- “It’s the best among the rest.”

Asus zenfone has enough reasons to make me smile, to feel myself flying in the sky of my dreams.

If my search for an ideal Valentine ends here, It should be termed a normal incident.

I have stated my reasons to select Asus zenfone as my ideal Valentine this season, what are yours?

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Make your proposal unique

“It’s more difficult to propose than to love.”

I don’t know who had said this, but I have heard it several times from the tongue of lovers. One thinks a lot and lot to propose their partner anyhow today but that today turns into anyday when they met.

“If two bodies feel sensation for each-other, their heart feel jittery being distant, nervousness increases when they are close and a lot of emotional things begin to happen, then It is assumed that there is ‘Love’ taking birth between them.
Love is not the last thing to live together. To be valid to continue their love till infinity, they need to take the certificate of ‘Marriage’.”

To propose your partner for marriage is not as easy as shown in Movies.
It asks pre-planning and the rescheduling of your plan again and again and It could happen several times that you thought, planned, took oath and went for porposing but returned with anger on your own hesitating tongue.

What happens when they are together? Why proposing become a task similar to breaking mountain?

It is unknown and hence assumed as a ‘Natural happening’.
But I think,
It’s actually their love that they forget every earlier thinking and want to just live the ongoing moment. Past and future is skipped away and only present time is wished to be continued till infinity.
Looking into the eyes of each-other, they delete their surrounding from their minds.

In my personal life, I haven’t experienced love yet but I have witnessed many in my peripheral.
Love is really a holy thought and a person can explore its wholeness if got true love in life.

If I would fall in love and got a chance to propose my partner ever, I would be lucky.

How I would propose my partner?
Who thinks before, It just happen and nothing else.

If I have to,
I would also have to reschedule my proposal several times as I am very shy. I am not alone but Love has always turned ‘Lions into cats’.

How to propose?
The method of proposing should be unique and that should be remembered for ever.
But not like Viru, who did the drama to jump from water tank, to propose Basanti in the Movie Sholay.

After rescheduling my proposal again and again,
One day, When we met,
I told her that I am going to join the politics.
She was surprised at once and asked me to repeat my words.
I did the same and then she screamed on me, “Are you mad?”
I said, “No, I love politics.”
She spoken her words in weeping tone and said, “I knew it earlier that you don’t love me.”
I asked her why she was crying.
“I am not crying. I am unsure that It’s not love but politics you are doing with me,” She said in the same tone.
I was smiling from inner part of my heart but I didn’t showed the smile on my face.
I said seriously, “You haven’t understand my words.”

“I am better than you in studies and you say I can’t understand,” She said, She was normal.

I had came today to give final touch to my planning to propose her and hence, I had to be romantic.

I said to her, “I am going to contest the election, It’s the election not for power, money but my love.”
“You are my voter, you are my election officer and I am contesting to win the state of love.”

‘I love one, you are one’.
I stopped my voice for a while and said, “Will you vote for me?”
She was looking regularly at my face and said,”………..?”

I don’t know what she would say If I would propose her in this manner. I don’t know It would work or not. I don’t know she would vote for me or not, I haven’t ever tried.

I would plan another way to propose her and win her heart with her vote, till I get succeeded.

Valentine day, the most popular and holy day in the world, to showcase love, is celebrated on 14th February every year. It’s less than a month for that day in 2015.
Just begin your planning to propose your partner and win heart with majority of votes.

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Love is not business

‘A cool wind of emotions flying aside you can ring bells in your heart, be alert otherwise you can fall in love.’

Any definition is too less to justify a true love. So, I will not try to define it.

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There lives no expectation, no binding, no limit in true love. Only emotions, two hearts and beliefs take part in it. Two bodies called lovers promise to remain on the same boat till life. If a single one tries to jump out of the boat, the water creates a stir and life goes unbalanced.

The fast life of today is racing along with jet aeroplane. People want everything as soon as possible. They are in hurry and hence live a life of double character.
It hurts too much when people apply their speed in innocent love too.

The goal of love has been Marriage for a long time in reel and real life both. If one refuses to do marriage, it is termed as Fraud by the other and there can’t be any room for cheating in a true love.

According to HT-MaRS Youth survey, 61% youths were in favour of premarital sex ( Sex before marriage ) but 63% prefered to marry virgins. The statistics directly says that majority of youth weren’t ready to go ahead with their so-called love relations. They do love to enjoy corporal relations but nothing else. They prefer relations of profit. It’s the condition of today’s love. Every belief has been thrown out in dustbeans.

In our country…

Mostly premarital sex take place in metropolitan cities as there is much freedom and feeling of being developed is too high. Metropolitan youth have easy understanding and reach to Hollywood movies and English novels where premarital sex is practiced at most.

If you will talk of premarital sex in small towns and villages, it can cause big destructions. The place where love is treated as a crime, don’t think of much more.

Wrong in premarital sex

० It turns heart-based love to body-based.
० It dosen’t secure relations.
० We are a product of Indian culture and hence can’t go too far from it.
० Love is treated as a ‘matter to achieve body’ while practicing this.
० Many disagree to go ahead with it.
० The word ‘expectations’ destroy the feeling of love.
० Crimes related to premarital sex is not an uncommon thing, It’s a dark spot on love and dark side of premarital sex.
० Most importantly, premarital sex isn’t true love often.

In their famous Judgment, Delhi court said that premarital sex is immoral and no religion in the world permits it.
Madras High court had earlier said that premarital sex is equal to marriage.
These were the cases related to cheating in love.

Judiciary too believes that there is something wrong in the term premarital sex and hence dosen’t allow it.

Youth should come out of the movie’s or novel’s mania and live in the real world. The real world and a civilized one says that, ‘premarital sex should be eliminated from your mind’. Love is an honest bondage and shouldn’t be made a matter of fraud. I would say a big ‘No‘ to premarital sex.

Do love with your partner for being one but don’t do the act to be none.

Poonaam Uppal’s True Love – A Mystical True Love Story on Flipkart interacts with you about true love that is true in all manner.
Have you ever thought about your true partner for lifetime?
If you haven’t thought earlier, start to draw in your heart and just find him/her.
Best wishes.

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Believe on bondage for life,the marriage

Can you talk about love publicly? Can you do love publicly? Not easy is that.
If I am less than adult, I have no right to chat about that. If I am an adult, I will have to be personal and secret while talking.
This is our so-called society that even bans on love. Talking about sex could be more destructive.

The birth of homo sepians

Human(Homo sepians) is called the descendant of ‘Aadam and Hauwaa’. Aadam and Hawaa were attracted to each-other after eating an apple. The world’s population is called the result of that.
There are many stories related to the origin of human life. It also struck me that what was the source of origin of Aadam and Hauwaa.
Forget the origin, talk about their attraction and union. They did sex without any rule. No sign of marriage was there. That was a pre-marital sex.

Why?
That was an unsocial age. No rules, no bindings were there.No society was there to teach them about it. They did what they were inspired to.

Beginning of civilized era

Our civilization began with so much irregularities.
Living without clothes, eating raw meats, wandering without any goal were parts of our life.
The system of Marriage wasn’t there too.

World is called changeable. So, the art of living changed after living irregularly for a long time. We began to eat processed food after discovering fire, wear clothes and live in a well-established group of people, called societies. Societies made some rules to make life complex but meaninful. These rules later increased and increased and hence it was a beginning of a civilized era.

In 21st century

We are in the 2nd decade of 21st century. We are living in a civilized society.We have our choice and there are the people to fulfill it. We have dreams and reasons to compete for. We have own views, a goal for further going.

Condition of love in civilized era

We have got the ability and right to love,from the God but not the society
Lovers are made criminals and they are treated like that. The negative face of the society appears when they apply ban on love.

Pre-Marital sex

Sex before marriage is common these days. So-called lovers aren’t ready to get the badge of marriage. They want everything as soon as possible.
In the process of development, we are going beyond every rule.
What irritate are the criminal cases after pre-marital sex. Whether it’s Love splitting or crimes related to pre-marital sex or blackmailing or others, can’t be true love and these are unacceptable crimes.
Love spread smiles but if….

I think….

We have society,we have social rules, a civilized living, then by doing pre-marital sex, Are we trying to enter in the age of uncivilized living?
Is true love based on corporal relation only?
Are those true characters to love, who blackmail after making relations?
We are social animals and the most intelligent ones, Why to behave like simple animals?

There are question marks on societies as well as lovers. Both are guilty for the unbalance.

The institution called ‘Society’ is more guilty. Societies need to come out of conservative thinking and give the freedom to love. We are in 21st century where we have to be more liberal.

If you are a lover, believe those who believe in you. Union of body is not so important, that is the last stage of a true bond of love.
Don’t give a chance to others to blame ‘Love’.
In hindi literature, It has been said that there are seven stages of love. Marriage is also included in this and sex is on the seventh number.

We are living in 21st century but in Indian culture. We can’t go too far from our culture. It’s in our blood. The culture is said an unwanted chain these days by modern people but they shouldn’t forget that they too are result of that.

Do love with your heart, fight with the society for that but think a lot about sex before marriage. Marriage creates bondage and commitment to the relation. Marriage not combines only a single relationship but a set of relations take birth by this. It’s the best way to secure your love, your beliefs, your dreams and a lot. Sex is a lovable bondage for some moments but not for the life.

I could be called conservative but I would say ‘No’ to pre-marital sex.

Where does true love happen? It could be anywhere. In a train, On roads or anywhere else, you could feel a cool breeze flowing aside you. You could be attracted to someone you are seeing first time.

Poonaam Uppal’s True Love – A Mystical True Love Story On Flipkart talks about the true love finding.
Love and death never warns, Both happen all of a sudden.
Read and think where your ‘true love’ is?