Believe on bondage for life,the marriage

Can you talk about love publicly? Can you do love publicly? Not easy is that.
If I am less than adult, I have no right to chat about that. If I am an adult, I will have to be personal and secret while talking.
This is our so-called society that even bans on love. Talking about sex could be more destructive.

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The birth of homo sepians

Human(Homo sepians) is called the descendant of ‘Aadam and Hauwaa’. Aadam and Hawaa were attracted to each-other after eating an apple. The world’s population is called the result of that.
There are many stories related to the origin of human life. It also struck me that what was the source of origin of Aadam and Hauwaa.
Forget the origin, talk about their attraction and union. They did sex without any rule. No sign of marriage was there. That was a pre-marital sex.

Why?
That was an unsocial age. No rules, no bindings were there.No society was there to teach them about it. They did what they were inspired to.

Beginning of civilized era

Our civilization began with so much irregularities.
Living without clothes, eating raw meats, wandering without any goal were parts of our life.
The system of Marriage wasn’t there too.

World is called changeable. So, the art of living changed after living irregularly for a long time. We began to eat processed food after discovering fire, wear clothes and live in a well-established group of people, called societies. Societies made some rules to make life complex but meaninful. These rules later increased and increased and hence it was a beginning of a civilized era.

In 21st century

We are in the 2nd decade of 21st century. We are living in a civilized society.We have our choice and there are the people to fulfill it. We have dreams and reasons to compete for. We have own views, a goal for further going.

Condition of love in civilized era

We have got the ability and right to love,from the God but not the society
Lovers are made criminals and they are treated like that. The negative face of the society appears when they apply ban on love.

Pre-Marital sex

Sex before marriage is common these days. So-called lovers aren’t ready to get the badge of marriage. They want everything as soon as possible.
In the process of development, we are going beyond every rule.
What irritate are the criminal cases after pre-marital sex. Whether it’s Love splitting or crimes related to pre-marital sex or blackmailing or others, can’t be true love and these are unacceptable crimes.
Love spread smiles but if….

I think….

We have society,we have social rules, a civilized living, then by doing pre-marital sex, Are we trying to enter in the age of uncivilized living?
Is true love based on corporal relation only?
Are those true characters to love, who blackmail after making relations?
We are social animals and the most intelligent ones, Why to behave like simple animals?

There are question marks on societies as well as lovers. Both are guilty for the unbalance.

The institution called ‘Society’ is more guilty. Societies need to come out of conservative thinking and give the freedom to love. We are in 21st century where we have to be more liberal.

If you are a lover, believe those who believe in you. Union of body is not so important, that is the last stage of a true bond of love.
Don’t give a chance to others to blame ‘Love’.
In hindi literature, It has been said that there are seven stages of love. Marriage is also included in this and sex is on the seventh number.

We are living in 21st century but in Indian culture. We can’t go too far from our culture. It’s in our blood. The culture is said an unwanted chain these days by modern people but they shouldn’t forget that they too are result of that.

Do love with your heart, fight with the society for that but think a lot about sex before marriage. Marriage creates bondage and commitment to the relation. Marriage not combines only a single relationship but a set of relations take birth by this. It’s the best way to secure your love, your beliefs, your dreams and a lot. Sex is a lovable bondage for some moments but not for the life.

I could be called conservative but I would say ‘No’ to pre-marital sex.

Where does true love happen? It could be anywhere. In a train, On roads or anywhere else, you could feel a cool breeze flowing aside you. You could be attracted to someone you are seeing first time.

Poonaam Uppal’s True Love – A Mystical True Love Story On Flipkart talks about the true love finding.
Love and death never warns, Both happen all of a sudden.
Read and think where your ‘true love’ is?

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